Geriatric care new phrase for baby boomers

Graying Americans call on pros to manage lives of aging parents

April 9, 2001

BY JULIE EDGAR
FREE PRESS STAFF WRITER

Baby boomers tending to aging parents are nothing if not resourceful.

More and more of them are hiring others to do the job for them or starting their own companies to help their peers navigate the maze of services for Mom and Dad.

WHAT TO CONSIDER

The National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers, based in Arizona, can be reached at 520-881-8008, but it does not provide referrals. Its Web site has state-by-state listings of geriatric care managers. See www.caremanager.org.

What to look for in a geriatric care manager

·  Experience. Has the person worked with other older adults as a care manager?

·  Background in human services. The person should have a degree in social work, nursing, psychology or gerontology, or have worked in public health or health service administration.

·  Availability. Care managers should be accessible 24 hours a day or be able to provide an associate to fill in when they are not available.

·  Services provided directly. Get a clear picture of what services the care manager provides directly and which ones the care manager will refer. A nurse, for example, should be able to tend to limited medical needs and to access for the client the best services out of his or her scope of ability.

Source: Connie Rosenberg, president of the National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers.

Richard Poyle of West Bloomfield, for one, had no idea where to go after his mother fractured her pelvis and could not get around her apartment so well anymore. He is 55, an only child and, like most people, ignorant of his options.

"This is something we don't learn when we grow up," he said.

Luckily, Poyle said, a friend mentioned Laurel Felsenfeld, who is part of a relatively new breed of professional called the geriatric care manager.

She met with his 88-year-old mother to gather enough information to make recommendations. As a result, Poyle's mother will move into an assisted living residence where she will still have her own place but will not have to cook for herself.

"It was probably as beneficial for me and my wife because we had someone who at least knew the jargon and had the background in practitioners, expectation levels and information on a subject we didn't know anything about," Poyle said.

Geriatric care management has been around for 15 years. But it has taken off in the past few years as baby boomers find themselves squeezed between their aging parents and their children. About a quarter of all U.S. households have at least one caregiver whose average age is 46 and likely works full time, according to a 1997 survey by the National Alliance for Caregiving, the most recent data available.

"Our membership grows every year," said Connie Rosenberg, president of the 1,400-member National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers. The association, founded in 1988, is based in Arizona.

Home-care companies are starting to offer the service, although the field is still dominated by lone practitioners, many of them social workers and nurses. There is no certification process, but the association offers training to members.

The real value of a geriatric care manager is who and what they know, Rosenberg said. At fees that range from $25 to $100 per hour, however, the service is not cheap, and it is not covered by Medicare.

Typically, the care manager starts with a broad assessment of the person's social, medical, emotional or legal needs. It may be that the older person simply needs a support bar in the shower.

And sometimes, the care manager stays on, developing relationships that call on his or her skills as a friend.

Sue Fabian of Elderwise Advisor/Advocate in Royal Oak works with a former college professor who has late-stage Alzheimer's and Parkinson's diseases. She sparked an interest in him when she brought him a pile of books and he chose one in particular that the two of them now read and reread.

"I'm cutting through the fog of dementia," said Fabian, 46, who has degrees in counseling and psychology. She was attracted to elder-care management after helping her mother get through the aftershocks of a stroke and learning firsthand how exhausting it is to locate the right services.

"Usually, the family just needs to know where to go," she said. "Or, sometimes the family just doesn't have the energy to do it."

Like Lynn Ott of Canton. She would do more for her parents if she could, but she is coping with her own burdens: a weak heart and a child with special needs. So she was thrilled when a home-care nurse referred them to Mike Flannery, a geriatric care manager in Livonia.

"People my age want to do what they can, but they can't always be there," said Ott, 54.

About a month ago, Flannery, 42, set up Leo and June Elderkin with an occupational therapist who is helping Leo Elderkin regain the use of a bad hand. An aide helps him bathe and does the housework in the couple's Farmington home.

"Without Mike, I wouldn't have known where to get help," said Leo Elderkin, 79. "See, the government isn't in a rush to help you."

Because of the soaring number of people edging into the over-65 category, caregiving is becoming a central part of many more lives. Some companies, such as Ford Motor Co., are offering employees a benefit for elder-care management, recognizing that taking care of an older relative cuts into productivity.

Another 1997 survey on caregiving showed that a quarter of U.S. employees missed at least one day of work every month caring for an older relative.

Eldergap, a 1 1/2-year-old national geriatric-care management company based in Southfield, is working with the Wellness Group, an employee assistance company, also in Southfield, to offer the benefit to companies for their workers.

"We think it's necessary," said Sandra Schiff, Eldergap's executive vice president. "We're telling human resources people to be progressive. It was like child care: it was taking people away from work. As a country, we have to face this."

Contact JULIE EDGAR at 248-586-2605 or edgar@freepress.com.